Love to cook but...

I love to cook.  Really I do, I love to feed people, watch them eat and enjoy my food, and basically just nurture people.   But, when I donate my time or volunteer if you will, and try my best, please don't feel free to castigate me.  I don't mind you coming back and telling me that 'hey, you didn't put enough cabbage into that dish', or  I like that, but you could have done a better job if you'd used less noodles'  both of which were actual comments made to me.   I don't mind that, but please don't sit there and fill up your plate and then complain about the food you're eating.   If you don't like it, don't eat it.  Or more importantly, don't take it and then poke at it with your fork as if that food item was a piece of maggoty meat. 

Sorry, I had to get that off my chest. 

I've been volunteering as a cook for the past few months and have really enjoyed the experience, mostly.   There have been a few blips along the way, some oops, some disasters that got fixed, mostly, but overall a good time.